How to Talk Dirty To a Guy And Sound Really Sexy!

Talking dirty to a guy isn’t as hard as it seems. In fact, understanding how to talk dirty to a guy can be the easiest thing if you know these tips.

Most girls want to talk dirty with their boyfriends.

But many of them just don’t know what to say.

Really, what is talking dirty anyway?

We’ve all heard about it, and we’ve all heard that sex feels a lot sexier and dirtier while talking dirty.

But what is talking dirty all about and how can you get better at that?

To be quite truthful, talking dirty to a guy isn’t as complicated as most girls assume it to be.

And contrary to popular belief, you really don’t have to behave like a porn star to talk dirty or sound sexy when you’re in bed.

Talking dirty should come effortlessly, and it definitely will, when you understand what talking dirty is all about.How to talk dirty to a guy

Learning to talk dirty can definitely make sex feel a lot better and a lot more sexually exciting too, even if you’ve been in a relationship with your man for a long time.

The easiest way to start talking dirty when you’re having sex with your man is to just talk. If your thoughts are sexy, the words will always be dirty.

What you hear on a porn video isn’t dirty talk, it’s almost always just dirty. If your man likes that kind of talk, and you like it too, watch a few nudie videos and learn from it. But if you really want to understand how to talk dirty with a guy and sound really sexy at the same time.

Want to turn your guy on and give him a huge erection while making love to him? Just use these 10 tips to talk dirty with him. Learn to control his big head and his little head with your words and he’ll always be excited to have sex and talk dirty with you.

1. Speak your mind when you’re horny. While having sex, almost all the time, you’d find that there are a lot of naughty things that pass through your head. If you can think it, say it to your man. If you’re aroused, it’s definitely going to sound dirty.

2. What if he was a friend or a one night stand? Learning to talk dirty to a guy is all about indulging in an active imagination. What are the fantasies that arouse you?

Just imagine he was a sexy friend who you ended up having sex with when you were drunk. Or imagine he’s a hot guy you’re having a one night stand with. How would you feel? Wouldn’t sex feel awesome and your orgasms feel better if you were having sex with a stranger all of a sudden?

3. Describe your dirty thoughts. Want to arouse a guy even before you get to the act in bed? Whisper what you’d do to him as soon as you get some time alone with him into his ears when he’s driving and on the way home. As long as you go into all the intimate details, it’ll always be perfect dirty talk.

4. Moan and let him know you like it. At times, you don’t need words to talk dirty to a guy. When you’re making love to your man, show your appreciation with wet gasps and moans. As long as you go ‘aaah’ each time he thrusts you deep, it’ll give him the same horny boost as sexy talk.

5. Don’t trash talk. Don’t trash talk unless you like it and so does your boyfriend or husband. For most guys, moaning unnecessarily or making extremely aroused facial expressions for no reason can be a sexual turn off. It may work in the nudie movies. It doesn’t always work in real life unless your boyfriend looks at you like a sexy piece of meat.

When feelings are involved in bed, use your imagination and get him thinking. It’ll arouse your man more and create better dirty talking opportunities.

6. Use crude words only if he likes it. Calling each other a bitch and a dog could excite a few *animal lovers*, not everyone else. If you like it, use it a couple of times and see if your man reciprocates by calling you something indecent in return. If he doesn’t say anything or looks surprised, don’t worry about it and just switch to some other kind of dirty talk.

6 lines that make for good dirty talking to a guy

If you’re looking for a few examples on sexy and dirty things to say to your boyfriend or husband, just use your imagination and mix these lines in!

# You make me so wet

# Your shoulders look so sexy

# Gosh, it feels so big!

# I love the way you feel inside me

# Ohh… don’t stop that!

# This feels so good!

[Read: How to make your boyfriend want you more than ever! ]

6 lines that don’t always sound good while talking dirty

# More, more, more! *trust me, he’s trying his best already!*

# Is that all you got, big boy? *are you trying to emasculate him?*

# Screaming *really, how many people actually enjoy screaming?*

# F##k me… *seriously, what IS he doing to you?*

# Harder… *You’ll make him feel like he’s inadequate unless you compliment him for it after a few seconds of harder thrusts*

# Say something dirty to me / Call me a bitch *don’t ask him, just say it*

What do women fantasise about sexually? Super Fella reveals the top ten female fantasies and unveils the straight fact. Sexual fantasies for women are actually quite similar to what men fantasise about!

The sweet damsels are more on the dreamy and romantic side of things, but they do have their own share of sexual fantasies for women.

And quite surprisingly, the top female fantasies are not very different from what men want in bed.

If men and women share similar interests in sexual fantasies, why do we really have to hide it and pretend like we’re all clean as a whistle.

After asking a lot of women, and of course, through my own personal experience, here are the top ten sexual fantasies for women.

The top ten female fantasies

Women may say what they want, but most women at least indulge in a few of these fantasies, if not all.

I’m really confused about a lesbian fantasy which many girls think is a hot one, but a few others were totally against it. But what the hell, I like it, so here goes the top fantasies for
women.

The rape fantasy

This might sound like something women aren’t really into. But many women do dream about getting molested by a man, or fantasise about a man walking in, carrying her onto a haystack and nailing her. Aww, come on, not literally!

Being a stripper

Which woman doesn’t want to be a stripper? Give her a few shots of Absolute, and she’d be all over the table, flinging clothes off one after the other. But most women don’t do that, even after they down an entire bottle. They’re just way too inhibitive.

Role reversals

Women wonder what it would be like to be in a man’s shoes. Or more precisely put, they wonder what it would be like to be in a man’s boxers. They dream about stories where they could wear his long trench coat and a cap with nothing inside and take the man in the front or back.

A gorgeous woman

Not all women accept this controversial fantasy for women. But many women secretly fantasize about having a physical affair with someone like Angelina Jolie or some other hot bombshell who always talks like she loves to have sex with women. Can you believe that?! Gasp!

Women fantasise about what it would be like to be with someone of the same sex, someone who knows just how she wants to be touched and what will make her orgasm. [Read: Girls kissing each other]

And just in case you haven’t thought about making love to Angelina, girlie, she’s stated that she finds a woman’s body to be the most attractive thing in the whole world (all men second that) and she loves to make out with women! Now, even if women haven’t given girl sex a thought, they might just change their mind.

Dominatrix

This is a role reversal of the submissive lover. Some women like to dominate men, instead of getting dominated all the time. They imagine what it could be like if they could indulge in all kinds of crazy acts with their men.

This includes tying him up and doing whatever she wishes to her man. Telling him to perform sexual acts on her as well as making him beg for what he wants, are just a few things that run along in a woman’s mind in this fantasy for women.

Come and get me, boys!

This fantasy is all about having several men touch a woman at the same time. She may even dream about being surrounded by several men kissing, touching and seducing her at the same time.

Every woman has her own favourite number in mind, varying from three to around ten men groping her! There’s something about just sitting back and being overwhelmed by sexual male attention that turns on women. Women don’t really dream of this all the time and hope it would come true someday, but they just can’t help but sit back and wonder, how it could feel like!

Of course, there are plenty more female fantasies and there are always unique fantasies for women that may turn some women on more than the others. But as long as you’re having fun and so is your man, go on and explore your mind.

The Benefits of Sex for Your Mind and Body

Need a chill pill? Having sex may be just what the doctor ordered. Sex can create an instant feeling of peace and serenity, relieving the day-to-day stresses of life. See just how relaxing sex can be for your mind, body, and spirit.

The Benefits of Sex for Your Mind and Body

“How you feel about sex to begin with is shaped by your brain,” says Dr. Gloria G. Bramer, a Georgia-based licensed clinical sexologist. “Feeling sexy is the best gift you can give yourself, beyond improving your immune system and all of the other health benefits. There is nothing like feeling positive about your body and your sense of sexuality.”

Sex makes you sleepy.

“The sexual release you have after having sex actually helps you sleep better at night,” says Dr. Yvonne Fulbright, author of The Better Sex Guide to Extraordinary Love Making. “The surge of oxytocin that happens with a climax will make you fall asleep easier and faster.” Just try not to fall asleep during — that may not go over so well.

Sex makes you happy.

This may not be a miraculous medical discovery, but happy women are often the most sexually active! Fulbright said that in a recent study of 4,000 American women, those who had the lowest stress and best overall mental well-being were those who were the most sexually active. They also had the most sexual interest! Have sex, be happy. Be happy, want sex. We like this co

Not having sex can lead to depression.

On the flip side of the happy sex scenario, Fulbright says that celibacy in elderly men and women ranked higher on the suicide index. Those who showed symptoms of depression were found to experience a decrease in symptoms after masturbation.

Sex will boost your self-esteem.

We say we don’t need it, but sometimes it’s nice to have a man’s approval, especially when it comes to our body. Fulbright says that having sex boosts your entire self-esteem, not just your body image. The more positive sexual experiences you have with someone, the higher your self-esteem will be. Practice makes perfect

 Orgasms help mental health.

“Nothing is as relaxing as putting yourself in a place where you relieve stress,” says Bramer. “After you have an orgasm you release natural oxytocin to the brain, which balances you out.” Looks like sex is good for your mind and your body.

Sex gets rid of cramps.

Bramer says that having sex may be the best way to relieve menstrual cramps. Many women say that by having sex, they not only get instant relief from their cramps but also from other PMS-related symptoms.

Use it or lose it.

“When it comes to sex, especially solo sex, people are afraid to do it too frequently,” Bramer says. “They think if they do it too much they will become dependent on solo sex, and this is not true. Sex is a case of use it or lose it. As women get older and reach menopause, the vagina can atrophy if it’s not put to regular use.”

 Sex is connected to your libido.

Just as sex is tied to mental health and happiness, it’s also tied to your libido. Bramer says that when you are feeling stressed, your libido is going to suffer. This will in turn diminish your appetite for sex, which will also add to your risk of depression. Having sex is an instant mood enhancer that can reverse all of these symptoms. So, what are you waiting for? Get busy!

High-society courtesans became national celebrities, and managed their own fame in an uncannily modern way: in one publicity stunt, Fanny Murray put a £20 note (think £2,000 in today’s money) in a sandwich and ate it, to show her contempt for the paltriness of the sum. But more tolerant attitudes to prostitution went hand in hand with more determined efforts to “save” women from it, on the new assumption that they were inveigled into it against their better nature.

Imagine a world where you could be whipped for lustful thoughts, gaoled for fornication and sent to the gallows for adultery. This is not 21st-century Saudi Arabia but England for most of its history. In his exhilarating, groundbreaking book Faramerz Dabhoiwala takes a voyeuristic look at the 18th-century sexual revolution that swept away this repressive system and ushered in a new era of sexual freedom.

Throughout most of English history any sex outside marriage was rigorously policed and brutally punished. The idea that consenting adults could, in private, do what they wanted with their own bodies was unthinkable. It was an offence to God and a threat to society. But during the 18th century a fortuitous alliance of factors shattered this worldview. As religious unity splintered and the Church’s machinery of sexual surveillance broke down, individual judgement usurped the word of God as the ultimate arbiter of sexual morality. Men were free to follow their natural urges whether they led them to fornication, adultery, even polygamy.

As Dabhoiwala concedes, women got a rawer deal but there were some modest improvements. No longer were they considered the more lascivious sex. And prostitutes were now portrayed as victims of male lust rather than the filth of society, being dispatched to penitential houses of correction rather than hard-labour camps on the other side of the world.

We tend to think of the 1960s as the breakthrough age of free love. It comes as some surprise, then, to realise that a more significant sexual emancipation happened much earlier. Indeed the whole narrative is peppered with startling revelations.

Who knew, for instance, that the legal code of King Alfred the Great (c. 893) permitted one man to kill another if he found him ‘under the same blanket‘ as his wife or mother? Or that the medieval system of rigorous sexual surveillance, far from being an imposition, in fact commanded the consent of the majority of the population? And there’s nothing new about the media’s obsession with the sex lives of celebrities, it seems. A cluster of 18th-century harlots, one of whom, Kitty Fisher, adorns the cover of this book, achieved celebrity status, with the press reporting every last detail of their sex lives.

The product of a decade of research, this is a meticulously researched, rigorously argued study. Readers seeking a lurid account of the minutiae of Georgian sex lives – how

often couples slept together, which sexual positions were favoured and so on – might feel a little short-changed. For the book has serious points to make. Its epic scope – from Roman times to the Victorian era, with a special focus on the 17th and 18th centuries – brings universal truths into sharp focus. It conveys the fluidity of sexuality, the manipulation of sexual standards by social elites and the way our sexual attitudes have been moulded by society.

This study is also an entertaining read, festooned with exquisitely obscene prints, harrowing anecdotes and titillating diary entries. The whole work is suffused with a subtle wit and humour. While this undoubtedly enlivens the narrative, it can occasionally be distracting.

A playful irreverence towards religion runs throughout the book. Dabhoiwala seems like the kind of academic who has more time for Voltaire than for God. Accordingly, some of the religious justifications against sexual freedom come across as mildly absurd, even though they held sway for thousands of years.

Overall, though, this is a lucid and stimulating book that challenges many of our assumptions about sex. Be careful how much of it you take to heart. Viewed from an 18th-century perspective, the idea of monogamy seems artificial, unreasonable and unnatural – one wonders how on earth it has survived into the 21st century.

Without the Christian church of the Middle Ages, Sigmund Freud of the 19th century would have been out of work. Many of the deepest ideas and notions of sex that we hold today were formulated and laid down in the Middle Ages, especially by the Church’s sometimes confused and other times severe pronouncements. 

The Church had opinions and laws about every aspect of sex. Adultery and fornication in some cases were sins punishable by death, but for a time the Church actually condoned prostitution, admitting that it was a necessary evil. And in the early part of the Middle Ages, priests were actually allowed to marry and have children. But despite the Church’s overall opposition to sex, it appeared to be very interested in the subject. Descriptions of sex acts were often described in great detail that sounded as if they were written with some enjoyment. One wonders whether if these early theologians were just a little titillated by the subject as they wrote their long polemics on sexuality. 

Courtly Love: You can look, but you’d better not touch

Dildos: “A size to match your sinful desire”The Church forbade open expression of sexual desire, but the medieval notion of “courtly love” suggested that love and admiration could exist somewhere between erotic desire and spiritual attainment. One writer defined courtly love as something “at once illicit and morally elevating, passionate and disciplined, humiliating and exalting, human and transcendent”. 

There are some references to the use of dildos by women in the Middle Ages, in particular, this one in a Church “penitential,” a book that prescribes punishments for sins. “Have you done what certain women are accustomed to do, that is to make some sort of device or implement in the shape of the male member of a size to match your sinful desire? If you have done this, you shall do penance for five years on legitimate holy days.” The word dildo was not actually used until the Renaissance period, according to the Oxford English Dictionary, but one fanciful explanation of its origin was a small elongated loaf of bread flavored with dill, thus “dilldough.” 

Prostitution: Looking for a good time?

Prostitution thrived in the Middle Ages, whether it was approved by the Church or not. In larger towns, prostitutes could practice their trade in anonymity and it was regarded as an honest and essential profession. For a time, the Church actually approved of prostitution. Ironically, the practice was regarded as a way of preventing adultery and homosexuality on a larger scale, so it was viewed a necessary evil. St. Thomas Aquinas, one of the sterner theologians, wrote: “If prostitution were to be suppressed, careless lusts would overthrow society.” The most respectable prostitutes worked in brothels, or “stews.” Most villages had one. In some villages, prostitutes had to identify themselves by particular pieces of clothing, such as a veil with a yellow stripe. Women who practiced outside of a brothel were often exposed to the harsher elements of society. Some were imprisoned, tortured or mutilated. 

The Fashion of Virility: Is that a codpiece, or are you just happy to see me?

One of the most popular fashion accessories of the Middle Ages was the codpiece – a flap or pouch that attached to the front of the crotch of men’s trousers and accentuated it in such a way as to emphasize or exaggerate the genitals. They were stuffed with sawdust or cloth and held closed by string ties, buttons, or other methods. The crotch was often extremely large or gave the idea of an erect penis. The word, codpiece, comes from the Middle English word, cod, which means scrotum.  Understandably, the Church did not appreciate these articles of clothing, calling them “fashions of the devil.” 

You can move the breasts out of a guy’s face, but you can’t make the guy take his eyes off it. Ever heard that? No? Well, it’s true. So why do guys like breasts so much? The Super Fella explains the real reason behind why men like breasts.If the present day situation is any indication, breasts are the defining point of a 
woman and women take pride in their mounds of femininity. They come in all shapes and sizes, and some are perky while others are somewhat more “relaxed,” so to speak. Some aureoles (the darker skin around the nipple… Mmm, the nipple) are larger than others, and even nipples themselves come in all shapes and sizes.

The bottom line; men love breasts. And today, you’re going to learn about all of the wonderful things you can do with the lovely pair that you are fortunate enough to have staring you in the face.

it’s time to become the king of the Kinky Two. But before I reveal how you should go about taunting the twins, you have to understand what makes them tick.
When it comes to boobies, all ducts lead to the nipple, which is centered in the areola. The actual breast is composed of fat and breast tissue (slap on a nipple and the fat suddenly becomes beautiful). There is no muscle in the breast; the muscle lies underneath the breast, covering the ribs (commonly referred to as pecs).
There are thousands of nerve endings in breasts so the nipples shouldn’t be the only aspect that you pay attention to. On that note, it’s time to begin the worshipping.
playing with the girlsWomen tend to be very proud of their breasts. Not only are they showing them off more than ever before, but they want you to pay serious attention to them during foreplay and lovemaking.

Simply grabbing a breast as though it were cookie dough and chewing on the nipple is going to get you nowhere fast. That is not impressive, to say the least. Like with the lovemaking experience as a whole, taking your sweet time is wise.

As well, before you rush to the bedroom to fondle away, keep in mind that although many women love it when you fondle their breasts, some find the too soft or too rough approach annoying. Always pay attention to her reaction whenever you perform any action.

Hands-on approach when her breasts are exposed and begging to be touched, work your magic by using your hands to lightly outline the outer part of both breasts slowly. This will serve to give her the chills… and BAM! — her nipples will become erect, kinda like you.Lightly work your hands over them, smoothing your palms over her nipples ever so slightly. The idea here is to tease her and let her imagination run rampant imagining what it’s going to feel like when your hot tongue finally does its job

Remember practice safe sex 

10 Things You Wear That Make Guys Think You’re Promiscuous

1. The Bodycon Dress – 57%Yes, you’ve been waiting for the number one thing that makes us look easy is… that tight, “bodycon” dress. What exactly is a bodycon dress? It’s a tight dress (doesn’t matter the length) that shows the girl’s figure. Have to admit it, but there’s some truth to this one compared to the other nine clothing items.

2. Crop Tops – 51%
And yes, this goes for cropped hoodies, too. We know that cropped tops are like peep-toed booties, nonfunctional and pointless. But, a lot of us gals do think some cropped tops look good and trendy, not skanky.

3. Corset Tops – 51%It doesn’t matter what form they’re in – top, dress, strapless, with straps – corsets make anyone’s boobs look bigger. Take these Hong Kong stars for instance, they do look sexier than usual! Plus, besides, weren’t corsets originally lingerie wear?

4. Lace – 45%
Oh, deary! Lace is so classy, elegant, and yes – it can be sexy. But, sexy does not equate to being easy. Maybe these guys have been looking at WAY too many Ann Summers ads.

5. Underwear as Outwear – 43%
This is a total no-brainer if you’re going to show what you wear over your goodies. We’re pretty sure Lady Gaga would find these numbers flattering, though.

6. Pencil Skirts – 38%
Wait – let’s get this straight? Pencil skirts are “sluttier” than stiletto heels and mini skirts? How is that even possible when you’re covered up? But then again, we realise how many guys are infatuated with the whole “sexy librarian” look.

7. Knee-High Boots – 32%Do these guys know the difference between knee-high and OVER-the-knee-high boots? We can understand if they think we’re promiscuous if we’re wearing over-the-knee-high boots, but not so much if they’re only “knee-high.” Come on, even Miley Cyrus looks innocent in them!

8. Stiletto High Heels – 29%
This really depends on how the shoe looks like. If you’re wearing a Christian Louboutin classic stiletto, more power to you. But if you’re like Taylor Momsen walking around with a stripper stiletto heel – well, we can’t blame you for thinking that way.

9. Mini Skirts – 22%
Ah – okay, now we’re kind of getting somewhere. Mini skirts can look slutty depending the compassion. If you’re wearing it to school, that’s not a good idea, whereas if you’re wearing it to a club, you’re just wearing the trend. But, we may agree with this one if you’re going commando while wearing a mini skirt (Lindsay Lohan has been guilty of this no-no). Wear a thong at least, ladies!

10. Hipster Jeans – 19%
Apparently, hipster jeans, instead of low-rise jeans, are the ones that made the list. Apparently, the slightly baggy fit makes you look “easier” than that low-rise skinny fit, ladies! Forget that Kate Moss isn’t wearing a bra; it’s the jeans that guys are looking at.

As a commercial and political centre, London could offer sailors and merchants a range of maritime services that was unrivalled by other British ports. Important institutions like Lloyd’s of London and The Baltic Exchange began their insurance and ship-broking activities in its coffee houses.The port was also a major centre for shipbuilding and the making of scientific instruments. However, the port also provided services of a less respectable nature.

The young wanton privateer bringing a Spanish prize into the port of love.

Throughout its history, women worked as prostitutes on the wharves and quays of maritime London.

As we shall see, these women were often described in the prints of the time as ‘privateers’ or ‘frigates’ embarking on ‘cruises’ to bring home ‘prizes’.

Indeed, so strong was the connection between prostitutes and maritime terminology that by about 1700, ‘frigate’ was naval slang for a woman.

Stereotypes

The artist Thomas Rowlandson (1756-1827) was an astute observer of life on the waterfront and in the taverns of maritime London. The prostitutes in Rowlandson’s pictures are young, pretty and buxom.

They have little caps with feathers and ribbons on their heads, fancy necklaces, and they are dressed in low-cut, high-waisted dresses that emphasise their generous figures.

Rowlandson’s prostitutes are not downtrodden victims on the verge of starvation, but are charming and seemingly carefree women.

As we shall see, the reality for many prostitutes was a long way from this cheerful stereotype. For most prostitutes, life was highly unpleasant. They were in constant danger of contracting sexually transmitted diseases and were frequently subjected to male violence.

By the end of the 18th century, the view of prostitutes as members of a rough, but essentially humorous London subculture had changed. They were now seen by artists and commentators as either a danger to ‘respectable’ society, or as unfortunate victims who needed help and sympathy.

The caricatures of bawdy taverns and cheerful brothels pictured by Rowlandson and others were thus replaced by visions of sinister slums containing seedy dance halls and down-market brothels. They were inhabited by what the surgeon and social reformer William Acton

called a ‘horde of human tigresses who swarm the pestilent dens by the riverside at Ratcliffe and Shadwell’.

In 1857, Acton published Prostitution, considered in its Moral, Social and Sanitary Aspects. This was based on information 

Opium dens

In one Limehouse slum, Hemyng entered a room where a Lascar was living with a prostitute. The sailor had been smoking opium and was lying on a straw mattress on the floor covered by two tattered blankets. He was stupefied by the opium and the room was filled with its sickly smell.

The woman who crouched by his bedside looked like an animated bundle of rags. Her face was grimy and unwashed ‘and her hands so black and filthy that mustard-and-cress might have been sown successfully upon them’.